sex, intimacy, & relationships
Education ➝ Holisticism ➝ Awareness
nicole schafer

Licensed Professional Counselor + Sex & Relationship Coach

Okay, who is she?

Nicole generally works with individuals on attachment, boundary issues, codependency, feeling comfortable in their skin, and exploring desires. She loves to work not only with individuals but with relationship partners (couples, throuples, polycules, etc.) on communicating needs, building emotional intimacy, exploring sexuality, and generally improving relationship health.

Her interests include relationships, sex, sexuality, attachment styles, holistic & alternative health, and spirituality. She approaches therapy and coaching with an emphasis on positive psychology and a bit of existentialism, but is ultimately person and solution-centered.

Nicole aims to provide a safe environment for open communication throughout your time together. She’s an extremely open book, incredibly non-judgmental, and always has a great sense of humor to add to sessions. She will help guide you and provide tools to navigate whatever situation is at hand.

She continues to invest in ongoing professional development surrounding sex, intimacy, & relationships, as well as holistic and alternative health & spirituality and, is a member of the American Counseling Association (ACA).

What She Paid For

Licensed Professional Counselor, IL
M.S. Clinical Mental Health
B.A. Psychology & Biology

The Important Stuff

Myers Briggs

INFJ
ISTJ
ISFJ
INTJ
ISTP
ISFP
INFP
INTP
INTP
ESTP
ESFP
ENFP
ENTP
ESTJ
ESFJ
ENFJ
ENTJ

Zodiac Signs

Aries
Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
☄ Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagittarius
☾ Capricorn
Aquarius
☀ Pisces

Enneagram

1 Reformer
2 Helper
3 Achiever
4 Individualist
5 Investigator
6 Loyalist
7 Enthusiast
8 Challenger
9 Peacemaker

Birth Order

First child
Second child
Only child
Middle child
Youngest child

Love Languages

Words of affirmation
Quality time
Acts of service
Gifts
Physical touch

Human Design

Manifester
Generator
Manifesting Generator
Projector
Reflector